I am happy to share my address
Buy the postage yourself, use your own address as the delivery address, then send the QR code or label to the person sending the item.
If someone says they have an item your family needs, this is a safer way to handle postage without sending cash first.
Do not send postage money directly to a stranger.
Buying the postage yourself does not make every exchange safe, but it helps reduce risk. You keep control of the booking, you get tracking, and you may be able to cancel an unused label if the parcel is never dropped off.
Courier prices and rules can change. The prices on this page are guide prices checked in July 2026, not promises from LittleBlueCup.
This page is part of LittleBlueCup's wider safety guidance. It is not a guarantee, but it can reduce pressure, reduce unnecessary address sharing, and make postage conversations easier to check.
Start with whether you are willing to share your home address.
Both routes are about the same basic habit: you buy postage directly from the courier, then give the sender the label or QR code instead of sending them money.
Buy the postage yourself, use your own address as the delivery address, then send the QR code or label to the person sending the item.
Choose a locker, shop, or collection-point option where the sender can drop the parcel off and you collect it without giving out your home address.
If the parcel fits and both people can reach a locker or shop, try InPost Locker or Shop to Locker or Shop first. It keeps postage payment with you, avoids sharing your home address, and gives a clear drop-off trail.
Choose a locker or shop you can actually get to, with opening hours that work for you.
Wait for the sender to drop the parcel off before assuming anything is on its way.
Postage control helps with payment risk. It does not prove the item is genuine or packed well.
Keep the payment route simple, documented, and reversible where possible.
The easiest version is to send one link and ask the sender what works for them.
They can read the delivery options, choose a practical drop-off or collection route, and send you the details you need before you pay.
Delivery options for the senderThank you for offering to send this. We are really grateful. To keep everything clear and safer for both of us, I do not send postage money directly. Please choose the delivery method or service that is easiest for you from this page: https://www.littlebluecup.org/delivery-options-for-senders Please let me know once you have chosen the delivery method, along with the parcel size and weight, whether you can print a label at home, and the drop-off option that works best for you. I will pay for it and send you the QR code, barcode, label, or booking link you need. Once you have dropped it off at the shop, locker, parcel box, Post Office, or courier point, please send me the tracking or receipt. Thank you so much.
These are practical starting points, not endorsements or guarantees. Always check the live courier page before you pay.
When you want the sender to drop the item at a locker or shop and you want to collect from a locker or shop.
When you are comfortable sharing your address and want to keep control of the postage payment.
When an Evri ParcelShop or Locker is easier for the sender or collector than InPost.
When Royal Mail is easiest, the sender can use a Post Office, Parcelshop, Parcel Locker, or Delivery Office, and both sides understand what appears on the label.
When DHL ServicePoints are local, the parcel is larger, or other courier options are not practical.
When you need to compare couriers, check local drop-off points, or find a label-free service.
Be slower with international offers. Customs forms, delivery costs, import charges, return routes, and dispute processes can all be harder.
If the item is coming from outside the UK, use a courier or marketplace route where you can see the full price, tracking, customs requirements, and what happens if the parcel never arrives. Do not send informal postage money to someone you do not know.
A genuine helper should understand why you want to pay the courier directly.
This route mainly reduces payment and address risk. It is not a full guarantee.
If a postage conversation starts feeling pressured, stop and report the concern. You do not have to work out someone's intentions alone.